Clara and Everett

Clara and Everett

Sunday, December 8, 2013

Clara meets Santa


Sunday we went to the mall to get her picture with Santa. Andre and I are not spending money this holiday season so thankfully it was not to shop. The line took about an hour then we went out to dinner at Bonefish since we had a gift card. Clara is too young to be scared of Santa thankfully so no tears and we almost got a smile. She is so small they had to zoom in so Andre got a few pictures of the scene around Santa. Dinner is never a guarantee anymore. I get very tense when she cries in public at dinner as I don't want to "ruin" anyone else's dinner out. She did get fussy, so I fed her which is a production when shoved into a booth but thankfully she fell asleep after that for the rest of dinner. I still ride in the back with her, I love to hold her hands while we are in the car. I do get car sick but it's worth it.

 
Here is our Christmas tree this year. Next year who knows if she'll be pulling off ornaments or not. Andre has always been a fan of themed trees which I love. I usually have all my kid ornaments with colored lights. Both are great and we will stick with themed until our kids are old enough to help out with their ornaments. Decorating for Christmas is one of my favorite things to do, I can't wait until Clara is old enough to know about Santa and the Elf on the Shelf! I need to straighten out the skirt and lower the angel on the top, funny how I don't have five minutes for those things anymore, too busy staring at pretty Clara.  

 


A picture of a picture.

Andre snapped a few.




Sunday, December 1, 2013

Besties have Babies

Kate and I have been best friends since we were kids. Merrissa and I were college roomates freshman year at Cortland and have been inseprable ever since. The three of us lived together sophomore, junior, and senior year. I moved to Florida, Kate moved to North Carolina, and Merrissa eventually moved to Florida a few years ago. She got pregnant a month after me and moved back to NY for support however it won't be long until she's back!!! Kate was two weeks ahead of me with her second baby. It was so fun to be pregnant together, Kate was the biggest help of course having been through this before. We supported each other throughout the long months and have all had our baby girls!!!

 
 College pic on top, babies in order on bottom.


Kate's babies:

Alton Nickolas Simmons
2/13/11
7 lb. 15 oz. 20.5 in

Arvella Karst Simmons
9/17/13 - she was due Oct. 12 EARLY bird
7 lb 8oz 21 in

In no particular order:

Arvella
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Alton of course, dressed in Bills since the beginning, true to their roots!


Braving the cold



 
I have more of Alton to upload...soon!
 
Kate, thank you for being there for me at all hours of the day and night. Anytime I needed an ear or mommy advice you were there. I can't tell you how many times you put me at ease. You're so calming and I'm not sure what I would have done without you. I'm so lucky to have had this first experience with you! I love you!  
 
 
Merrissa's cutie:
 
Adrianna Jae Perry
11/25/13 - two days late
8lb 11oz 21 in
 
I must note that Adrianna was only two ounces less than my darling Clara. I'll show and ending picture of both our baby bellies to prove no one would believe Merrissa could have had such a big girl in her tiny belly not only because her belly is small but because Merrissa herself is slight. After too many hours of delivery (I'm waiting for the exact details...) Adrianna came via c-section since the birth canal was obviously too small!! What a healthy girl!
 
 
 
Clara = obviously big 


Adrianna = hiding somewhere? Wrapped around her spine? Not sure how this is possible!!!!
 Hi Roxy!





 The whole family!
 
I am so thrilled to have babies together. I hope they're able to play and be friends, even if it's a few times throughout the year Kate! Merrissa, get back here ASAP! We have and will facetime for play dates. I'm so thankful we all had healthy pregnancies/births and have three healthy baby girls. I'm also thankful to be such close friends with these two girls, I don't know what I would do without you! I love you all!! Congratulations, you're both such great mommies!!

Week 5

One month and counting, it's so hard to believe how fast the time goes. I can't believe many/most moms have to go back to work after week 6, it's so unfair, I'd be nowhere near ready. I won't be ready in January either but my heart goes out to all those who have to part so soon.

These past few weeks Clara has continued to grow, she seems so big. She is strong, she holds her head as usual looking left and right. She stands and bounces on her legs when I balance her on my lap. Her grip will pull my hair and hold my fingers while feeding, anything that lands in her Kung Fu grip doesn't stand a chance getting out. She is sillier than ever, making tons of noise and smiling lots. She likes to watch our facial expressions and mimic them. She has started to stick out her tongue after we stick ours out at her. She enjoys her "gym" kicking, squirming and watching all her toys dangle above her. She hits them with her flailing hands by accident and surprises herself. She still doesn't like belly time but we try from time to time so her back gets strong.

She has continued to have trouble with acid reflux, a few bad days where she cries all throughout the day and squirms in pain, I feel terrible. We got some medicine from the doctor we hope helps. She will be awake all day, not able to sleep, spitting up and kicking her feet and the next day out cold, exhausted from the day before. She had a pretty good sleep schedule where she was up from 9ish to 11ish, she'd sleep from around midnight until 4 or 5 and then up at 8ish. I liked that schedule, now she's out at throughout the evening, eats around 9, midnight and sleeps until 4:30 then up wide awake for at least two hours. I'd like to switch back to the previous schedule!!

We had Kristin visit again this week for the holiday, it was so nice having her back. An extra set of hands makes my life so much easier, her company is the best. Of course she cleans, bakes and takes great care of Clara. We decorated for Christmas, over half my cute decorations are from Kristin. I realized I'd like a lot more than I have. Each year I tell myself I'll get them after the holiday on sale and never do. I'm trying to figure out how to get her and the family to move here!! It was so nice to have her here for Thanksgiving which I'll post separate. We went down to visit Dad and Alice for a day, poor Clara didn't feel good that day and was fussy all day long. Mr. and Mrs. Vig stopped over to see Clara and give her a cute piggy bank. Thank you! Again, so sad to have Kristin leave!!

Andre, Clara and I went to get our Christmas tree. I am jealous of all the northerners on Facebook that are walking around in the snow chopping one down in a field, I miss that so much. It's just not the same in a tent at Lowes in 70-80 degree weather. We did get a cold snap last week, Clara had to wear warm jammies for the first time, it made it clear how much easier it is to live in warm weather, a good reminder why I live in FL. I took some fun Christmas pictures of Clara. We need to take her to get a picture with Santa soon!

Half way through these pictures I realized I should have put a white sheet under this blanket so it looked more like the snow I was going for. Again, I can't choose so here are too many of "Santa's Little Helper!"



I tired her out fast.

My favorite, her grinning as she falls asleep.







I love her feet!!

This past weekend was Turkey Bowl where Andre and friends gather to play a football game. It's so nice to see everyone each year! The boys play, the wives catch up and the kids get to play on the playground. I kept Clara in her stroller this year because the wind was whippin and it was chilly out for Florida. Next year she'll be running around with a runny nose like the rest of the kids! ;)

 The fellas after the big game



Aunt Kristin was luky enough to join in the fun!

Clara sporting her turkey bib for turkey bowl.

 
Two random ones daddy took and loved... 




Tiger & Al's - it was kind of a stressful visit since Clara wasn't content most of the time. Belly hurt. Aunt Kristin dipped your toes in the pool which you liked, they have a heater! Mrs. Vig held you for the best nap you took all day, she was Kristin and my elementary school teacher. She taught with Alice in Cuba. She and her husband now live in Englewood next to dad.


You let Grandpa hold you for a few minutes before your belly got really upset. His chest feels furry like dad's chest.




Aunt Kristin gave you your bath the next few days, such great help!!









Happy Holidays!